So last night, the laptop was brought to our dinner table. I read through my entire blog post, then started reading Nate your comments. I especially chuckled reading him things like...
"Sorry Nate..."
"Oh dear Nate..." (Ok, the Oh dear part still has me chuckling).
As he packed up to head to the gym last night he said "You have to post my rebuttal, tell them WHY I don't like hand knit socks" I half contemplated he should post his own rebuttal - lol.
On his return from the gym, I was sitting on our sofa, knitting, and he said "See, I'd like socks like those!" I raised an eyebrow, given I was sitting knitting the 'Rose is a Rogue' pattern. Roses, in pink yarn. Mmhhhh, you'd like these??? And here came his rebuttal:
His Aunt made them all hand knit socks one year. He was probably a young teen (this is my guess). He says they were fluffly, baby blue, made of wool and INCREDIBLY itchy. He hated them. But, he says he would like my pink rose socks (do you think I should knit them for him and see if they fit?) lol. Just kidding. I shouldn't rib him so hard. But, I do now see this as a challenge to knit him some nice, sportweight, non itchy socks. I think he will be sold.
All your comments yesterday really highlighted why handmade is just so wonderful. And also laid out some unspoken "rules".
- Chose who you give to and what you give to them carefully. Some people will never appreciate the work and the cost that goes into handmade gifts.
- I get really attached to the things I make and I want other people to love what I make. The thing is, someone else may not love it as much as I do, and that's o.k.
- I only give handmade to people who I think are worth the effort! It takes time and money to give handmade gifts.
- I think what it boils down to is - what are you giving and to whom. Need to pick your battles I guess.
- I don't feel insecure about giving handmade because it is sincere and genuine and from the heart. If the recepiant flinches or seems unimpressed, that is their issue - not mine. Why do we need to be so hung up on price tags and labels? Oh sadness... (I completely agree)
The last little nuggets of advice?
- there is more pleasure in giving than receiving, and if giving handmade feels good and right to you, gift on sister.
- forge ahead. It's all good!
- don't obsess...
Final note that Nate would like to place a comment - on dolls. He agrees with those of you who have said that giving stuffies, robots, dinosaurs, etc. are OK. He just has an issue with dolls. Dolls that look like, well, dolls. Anyone have a dinosaur pattern?
Wow, this is a long post! Now for the great doll reveal. Here is my first Wee Wonderful. At first I thought she looked like an Irene. Now I'm thinking Lucy. In anycase, I'm glad I gave her, and I will selectively gift on! Thank you sage readers!